Joy is your birthright—but high-functioning depression may be blocking it. Experts reveal signs, symptoms, and five keys to reclaim inner happiness.
Joy Under Threat in a High-Functioning World
Millions of Canadians are silently struggling with a mental health condition that’s often missed: high-functioning depression. While they appear successful on the outside, inside they may be battling an invisible joylessness—a symptom known as anhedonia.
Dr. Judith Joseph, a board-certified psychiatrist and mental health researcher, has been at the forefront of this conversation. Her research and personal experience shed light on why many high achievers feel emotionally disconnected despite outward success.
Behind the Mask of Achievement
Dr. Joseph has identified a growing number of individuals who meet clinical criteria for depression—without showing classic signs like sadness or withdrawal. “These people are productive, social, and high-achieving,” she said. “But they can’t feel joy, even when life looks perfect on paper.”
The condition, often overlooked, includes symptoms like alexithymia—difficulty identifying or expressing emotions—and the inability to experience pleasure. In her latest book, High Functioning: Overcome Your Hidden Depression and Reclaim Your Joy, Dr. Joseph explores how people wear emotional masks while quietly struggling.
The Science and the Symptoms
Her clinical work highlights how mental health doesn’t always look like textbook depression. “You can have a thriving career, a stable family, and still be emotionally numb,” she explained. This emotional disconnect is especially dangerous because it often goes untreated. High-functioning individuals may not seek help, believing their struggle is simply stress.
Dr. Joseph says recognizing the signs—particularly emotional disconnection and chronic overachievement—is key to early intervention.
Pathways to Reclaiming Joy
To combat this hidden crisis, Dr. Joseph advocates for what she calls the Five V’s—a framework to help people reconnect with authentic joy:
- Validation: Identify and accept your emotions without judgment.
- Venting: Talk to a trusted person, but always seek consent before sharing heavy emotions.
- Values: Focus on what truly matters beyond status and accolades.
- Vitals: Prioritize sleep, nutrition, and exercise—your mental wellness fundamentals.
- Vision: Cultivate forward-looking goals rather than reliving past trauma.
Her research suggests that small, intentional steps toward emotional awareness can help rekindle inner joy, especially for those stuck in a productivity loop.
Joy Is Built In—Not Bought
Dr. Joseph emphasizes that joy is not a luxury or a fleeting reward, but a fundamental human trait. “You don’t have to teach a child joy,” she said. “It’s built into us. We lose access to it when we ignore our emotional needs.”
She also warns against treating emotional healing as another task to master. “You’re not trying to be high-functioning here,” she advised. “You’re trying to live fully.”
A Call for Greater Awareness
As Canada continues to address mental health stigma, experts urge a deeper understanding of high-functioning depression. With rising rates of burnout and emotional fatigue, Joseph’s work calls attention to a silent epidemic—and offers a roadmap back to joy.
For those wondering why success hasn’t brought fulfillment, the answer may lie not in doing more, but in feeling more.